It’s annoying that whenever someone finds out that I lost my baby, they immediately say, “you can try again” or “will you try again?” What the hell does that have to do with it? If your older child died, would I immediately say, “you have other kids” or ask “don’t you have other kids?”
But something funny that people ask me all the time now that I am trying again: “When will you know if it worked?” Well, gee… how would you know if you were pregnant? You’d miss a period, right??? There’s nothing magical about getting pregnant via sperm donor. Except maybe for the initial insertion, it works the exact same way! Never fails to crack me up.