where I am alone

I remember being 16 years old, in Venice, watching lovers ride gondolas through the canals at sunset. I thought to myself, “I am never coming back to Italy single again!” There are just those beautiful places, those picturesque scenes, that are meant to be made into romantic moments.

Here is one of them:


On the other hand, I’d rather be lonely here than in any other place in the world. And here is my own backyard, a precious baby sleeping peacefully inside, my mom and grandmother close by. My daughter’s garden in bloom behind me. The wind rustling the leaves of trees, the lapping of gentle waves, the song of birds, crickets, and frogs. My ancestors whispering to my heart. Even my sadness, my heaviness, and my unfulfilled longings seem to belong here, to fit neatly somehow into the space surrounding me.

Only here am I home. Gratitude for what I do have is asked to fill my spirit, loneliness turned into an openness of the heart for what’s to come.

Author: Mother of All Things

Mother by fostering, adoption, and marriage... wife to my best friend... Bay area critical care nurse... travel in my blood, reading in my bones, clean food on my mind!

2 thoughts on “where I am alone”

  1. This is really sweet. It’s very true that sometimes the most beautiful places are the best place to be lonely. Because in those places are where our souls are nurtured and our feelings bloom 🙂

  2. I really envy that deep-seated sense of home and belonging! Got out of the military and married a rolling stone – we haven’t lived anywhere longer than 18 months in the past 13 years… I like living in different places and changing scenery, but there are times when I really look forward to the day we find where we belong!

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